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New Beginnings / New Beginnings- Moving Forward / Im a Mommy
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on: June 06, 2010, 01:08:04 PM
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Started by missing_my_tazzy | Last post by allergonaut
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Hello
It took me three attempts over a time span of 12 years to really get it. Never quit , quitting and please do not be to hard on your self. You can do it and it will get easier each time you try. I have over 4 months in now and it is real nice to beable to be present in the journey of life again.
SummerBreeze
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Circle Of Support / Talk to Us. Tell us how we can help? / Re: Losing Harry now
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on: February 22, 2010, 09:51:28 AM
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Started by Kitty | Last post by admin
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I am so very sorry for your loss, it is just too sad when we have to say good bye to our babies. There are not many words that can express the sadness. We all know how you feel and we are here for you. Every time we hear of a little one crossing over, it makes us all think of our experiences and brings back the pain we felt....we understand and we get it here at petseverlasting.com
If there is anything we can do to help you through this please write: support@petseverlasting.com. I have found that over the years just knowing that you are speaking or writing to someone who really uncerstands is a great help.
I will be thinking of you and please do not be afraid to reach out a hand....we will reach back.
Blessings to you and to that special little one Harry,
Rev. Dee
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Circle Of Support / Talk to Us. Tell us how we can help? / Re: Losing Harry now
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on: February 22, 2010, 07:05:32 AM
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Started by Kitty | Last post by Vicki206
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Dear Kitty, I just wanted to say how sorry I am to hear about Harry. I am sorry that you had to make the agonising decision to let him go but I just wanted to say that you did absolutely the kindest thing for Harry. I had to make the same choice for my cat, and like your situation the illness struck incredibly quickly and mercilessly. In our case our little 4 yo cat went from seemingly healthy to dying within 3 days (kidney failure).
It isn't fair and, of course you know this having lost Georgie, the pain is brutal and all-consuming. But it will get better, and now Harry is not in any discomfort so this is something to console yourself with.
With all my sympathy, Vicki x
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Circle Of Support / Talk to Us. Tell us how we can help? / Re: Losing Harry now
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on: February 21, 2010, 08:42:21 PM
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Started by Kitty | Last post by Dorygirl22
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Dear Kitty,
I'm sooo very sorry you lost Harry. I am very thankful that your vet handled everything the way you wanted it to be for Harry and yourself...and that he was able to purr in your arms before you had to part.
Remember, no matter who we lose...when we love...it is never easy to say goodbye...and so...as Ted and Dee said....we must take consolation in knowing they are not alone...they are in good company...and we need to believe...they are waiting at the Bridge.
Hang in there through these extremely sad and painful times ahead...and know that the heart DOES heal....no matter how it may be broken.
As so beautifully worded by Ted...I too wish your heart peace.
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Circle Of Support / Talk to Us. Tell us how we can help? / Re: Losing Harry now
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on: February 20, 2010, 04:58:35 PM
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Started by Kitty | Last post by Deesker
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Kitty,
I am so sorry for your loss. How devastating. Thank you for letting us know about Harry's passing. It just isn't fair sometimes. We question how this could happen but like Ted said, the only solace we have is to know we will see them again one day and that definitely got me through my grieving when I lost my cat E.T. Please know we're here for you and you are not alone.
With Sympathy,
Dee
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Circle Of Support / Talk to Us. Tell us how we can help? / Re: Losing Harry now
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on: February 20, 2010, 03:07:20 PM
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Started by Kitty | Last post by Teddyb35
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Kitty;
I'm very sorry to read about Harry's passing. It's stunningly brutal just how fast things can change. Scoutie was the same way, and never really found out what eventually took her life. We had taken her for a blood test to see if it was the kidney problems we thought she had overcome a couple of years prior; but within 48 hours, she was gone. The blood test came back two days after she passed, and our vet said the results looked fine. We were all at a loss.
Maybe our pets know something that we don't about living and dying. We can only hope to meet again at The Brdige and somehow be able to share that knowledge. The only solace is the good times that were shared and that Scoutie and Georgie and all our other friends will be at the Bridge to welcome Harry home.
Wishing your heart peace,
Ted
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Circle Of Support / Talk to Us. Tell us how we can help? / Re: Losing Harry now
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on: February 17, 2010, 07:52:21 PM
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Started by Kitty | Last post by Kitty
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Thank you all, sadly like Ted says Harry was dying in front of us by this morning so we took the awful decision to say goodbye while he was not in much pain.
Our vet was wonderful and it was peaceful, she sedated him first as per my request and he spent a happy few moments quietly purring in my arms.
We miss him so much and I'm shocked by how quickly this disease took him from us as three weeks ago Harry was a lively happy cat..
Kitty xx
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Circle Of Support / Talk to Us. Tell us how we can help? / Re: Losing Harry now
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on: February 10, 2010, 08:42:32 AM
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Started by Kitty | Last post by Kitty
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Thanks for your words Dory and I'm so terribly sorry you lost both kittys within such a short space of time:(
Harry is staying at the vets for a few days for iv fluid and this new treatment, the vet thinks if it's going to work at all we should see an improvement within five days. I know if this does'nt work he'll waste away and become worse very quickly which we would'nt want for him either.
I pray we don't have to make the decision for him, but a peaceful passing will be more dignified and gentle than seeing how this disease kills him.
Thank you again and I'll keep you posted.
Kitty xx
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Circle Of Support / Talk to Us. Tell us how we can help? / Re: Losing Harry now
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on: February 09, 2010, 06:24:51 PM
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Started by Kitty | Last post by Dorygirl22
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Dear Kitty
I am so sorry about Harry's diagnosis. I think it is wonderful that you have found a new treatment to try for him...and I will keep you and Harry in my prayers.
I don't know exactly what you meant...but my Frisky used to cry often and he too looked up at us from his bowl and cried too when he was ill. In the beginning when this started, I didn't know he was sick.
With him though he seemed not able to really eat anything much. He did drink...and he licked gravy but left the food behind. Then he'd "complain" to us. I never knew what he was trying to tell me ....but I think maybe his food didn't taste the same to him? or he was hungry but the food didn't "sit right" It's sadly always a guessing game and we can't always figure out for certain what our furbabies are trying to tell us.
I just wanted you to know I had a similiar experience...and that I will be thinking of you and Harry...and praying for good news.
Hang in there Kitty....I lost my twin boys only five weeks apart back in 2006....so I know how hard this news was on you so soon after losing Georgie.
Keep positive...and be strong.
Dory
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